After giving a glimpse of my life so far today I am going to tell about my love life.
There was time when I say my friends in school busy with there love. I was exceptional person among them who still feels having boyfriend is bad thing for our age. I used to be treated as a special case and they used keep me in distant while discussing their love life.
Very honestly, Love was not at all a priority or rather a need for me in that age. I had lots of things to do. I used to write short stories at that time, loves to read books and does a lot of paintings. I never felt I should have a person to pamper me. My parents were there who loves me a lot. But for my friends I was a total shame. Even I heard that if I like a boy, I will not be able to reciprocate my feelings to him as I was very shy. Even I got the name "Miss Reticent" in school given by the juniors during my farewell.
My only love and that time was my favorite actor .."Shahrukh Khan". I used to watch each and every movie of his, collect pictures and the most crazy thing made a T-shirt with my picture merging with his picture. My Dad has gifted me a big poster and I used to hang it on door of my room. I think this is quite common in that age. I remember how my mom used to worry about my craziness.
After I entered college my craziness started fading out. Though I still used to watch his movies but it lacked that madness. Finally my mom was in peace.
Things started changing for me, I can feel I am no longer a girl who used to feel shy talking to boys and infact I made more number of male friends than any one else. I used to talk and mix with them very freely. Same thing happened when I joined my animation course, I found some really good friends with whom I am still in touch.
I found my real lover or soulmate after I joined my first job. Very honestly I didnot like him initially. He used to criticize my work like anything. But now, I feel it was for my improvement.
Before telling about him, I must write about the office atmosphere I was working. It was the best. It was a small startup company with only very few employees but here I have spend the most memorable experiences of learning and working. Now coming to him, initially he was very choosy and will make several changes in the designs I create. He was not at all satisfied with anything. But slowly, he became a good friend of mine. We shared our common interests and I was thrilled to know that he likes reading books, plays guitar very well and sings awesome.
It was him who first started having a liking on me. He expressed his feelings lot of times, but I was hesitant. It was a very important decision of my life. I was not ready for a relationship.
but he gave me time, and also told me very boldly that he loves me and want to be my life partner. I loved his honesty. On the other hand, I was feeling very special that someone has loved me so much. So finally I fell in love.
My parents accepted the relation very nicely. He made a very poetic marriage proposal to me and my mom which was really sweet. But his family was a bit conservative and there he fought like a hero. He convinced his family and I was well accepted.
Now left was our marriage. It happened after one long year after the proposal .Before that we have spend a very precious time with each other.
I was quite chubby at that time so, with his encouragement I lost lot of weight and surprised everyone.
My wedding was very special. On one side, my parents tried to keep it very special and had fulfilled all my dreams. On the other side, my husband organised everything on his own and made it a special one.
I started my journey with him. Initially there was few ups and downs but we stood strong and faced everything jointly. Now its been 4 long years and I can proudly say that our relationship has become very strong over the years. We both have a mutual trust on each other. We respect each other. Sometimes, I feel he treats me like a baby same way my parents used to treat me when I was a kid.
I am very happy with my married life and I wish I stay happy and healthy rest of my life.
My husband is a gift from god to me.
I must say I love and respect him a lot.
Love you Bipu...
There was time when I say my friends in school busy with there love. I was exceptional person among them who still feels having boyfriend is bad thing for our age. I used to be treated as a special case and they used keep me in distant while discussing their love life.
Very honestly, Love was not at all a priority or rather a need for me in that age. I had lots of things to do. I used to write short stories at that time, loves to read books and does a lot of paintings. I never felt I should have a person to pamper me. My parents were there who loves me a lot. But for my friends I was a total shame. Even I heard that if I like a boy, I will not be able to reciprocate my feelings to him as I was very shy. Even I got the name "Miss Reticent" in school given by the juniors during my farewell.
My only love and that time was my favorite actor .."Shahrukh Khan". I used to watch each and every movie of his, collect pictures and the most crazy thing made a T-shirt with my picture merging with his picture. My Dad has gifted me a big poster and I used to hang it on door of my room. I think this is quite common in that age. I remember how my mom used to worry about my craziness.
After I entered college my craziness started fading out. Though I still used to watch his movies but it lacked that madness. Finally my mom was in peace.
Things started changing for me, I can feel I am no longer a girl who used to feel shy talking to boys and infact I made more number of male friends than any one else. I used to talk and mix with them very freely. Same thing happened when I joined my animation course, I found some really good friends with whom I am still in touch.
I found my real lover or soulmate after I joined my first job. Very honestly I didnot like him initially. He used to criticize my work like anything. But now, I feel it was for my improvement.
Before telling about him, I must write about the office atmosphere I was working. It was the best. It was a small startup company with only very few employees but here I have spend the most memorable experiences of learning and working. Now coming to him, initially he was very choosy and will make several changes in the designs I create. He was not at all satisfied with anything. But slowly, he became a good friend of mine. We shared our common interests and I was thrilled to know that he likes reading books, plays guitar very well and sings awesome.
It was him who first started having a liking on me. He expressed his feelings lot of times, but I was hesitant. It was a very important decision of my life. I was not ready for a relationship.
but he gave me time, and also told me very boldly that he loves me and want to be my life partner. I loved his honesty. On the other hand, I was feeling very special that someone has loved me so much. So finally I fell in love.
My parents accepted the relation very nicely. He made a very poetic marriage proposal to me and my mom which was really sweet. But his family was a bit conservative and there he fought like a hero. He convinced his family and I was well accepted.
Now left was our marriage. It happened after one long year after the proposal .Before that we have spend a very precious time with each other.
I was quite chubby at that time so, with his encouragement I lost lot of weight and surprised everyone.
My wedding was very special. On one side, my parents tried to keep it very special and had fulfilled all my dreams. On the other side, my husband organised everything on his own and made it a special one.
I started my journey with him. Initially there was few ups and downs but we stood strong and faced everything jointly. Now its been 4 long years and I can proudly say that our relationship has become very strong over the years. We both have a mutual trust on each other. We respect each other. Sometimes, I feel he treats me like a baby same way my parents used to treat me when I was a kid.
I am very happy with my married life and I wish I stay happy and healthy rest of my life.
My husband is a gift from god to me.
I must say I love and respect him a lot.
Love you Bipu...
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2 comments:
This is something really sweet....:)
I always love and appreciate love stories....
Thanks a lot Papri
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